tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post2822133855894887816..comments2023-10-29T04:29:29.607-07:00Comments on Pieces of Me: HurtingP.O.M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/16410533843419723414noreply@blogger.comBlogger62125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-71634673704793093202008-11-19T15:53:00.000-08:002008-11-19T15:53:00.000-08:00I think (cause you know you want to know what I th...I think (cause you know you want to know what I think... right?!) that when relationships aren't bad enough to be bad or good enough to be great that those are the very hardest to walk away from. It's like when you are eating something that just isn't great but you keep eating trying to decide if you like it or not? (you know what I mean) Well that's simplified a bit but the point is it's normal to go back for more while you try to pin point <I>exactly</I> what isn't working. <BR/><BR/>You will find somebody that is more than good enough.Mrs Furioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18082932653215907248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-10560402465430386942008-11-17T13:20:00.000-08:002008-11-17T13:20:00.000-08:00Thinking about you!Thinking about you!Jennifer Burgetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16917247557130645699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-26776441392365821972008-11-17T10:49:00.000-08:002008-11-17T10:49:00.000-08:00Sending lots of hugs your way. :)Sending lots of hugs your way. :)sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18242610800073587191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-26153954632156929892008-11-17T08:37:00.000-08:002008-11-17T08:37:00.000-08:00((HUGS)) I'm so sorry you have to go through this....((HUGS)) I'm so sorry you have to go through this. But you're a strong and vibrant person, and you'll be OK in the long run ... even if it doesn't seem like it. Take some time for yourself, and run it out. There's something better waiting for you to discover it. :)Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01630286159063213994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-87767947954122820722008-11-17T07:37:00.000-08:002008-11-17T07:37:00.000-08:00Yes, it sucks. But the sting will fade...*hugs*Yes, it sucks. But the sting will fade...*hugs*Missicathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547671118679036352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-23442739076256708682008-11-16T12:21:00.000-08:002008-11-16T12:21:00.000-08:00Just let me take care of the rebound dating and dr...Just let me take care of the rebound dating and drinking part ;-). I seem to be getting pretty good at it. It's like "taking one for the team"<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry things went sour. Sweeter things are guaranteed to be ahead. ((HUGS))chiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08894616877610664580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-23101619947611038782008-11-15T08:59:00.000-08:002008-11-15T08:59:00.000-08:00Hey girl, I'm sorry to hear about that - that suck...Hey girl, I'm sorry to hear about that - that sucks. For now, take all the time you need to feel sad and get it out of your system. But life's too short to wallow in misery and self-doubt. I'll echo what Sara said about eventually channeling your grief into something positive (like running). <BR/><BR/>This too shall pass, remember that.Billyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07861731779718760848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-56744869793170118402008-11-15T08:44:00.000-08:002008-11-15T08:44:00.000-08:00Just got caught up over here. You are strong and ...Just got caught up over here. You are strong and I know that you can do this!!!J~Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801414494327642020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-10220734191404650572008-11-14T20:28:00.000-08:002008-11-14T20:28:00.000-08:00Sorry that you are hurting, but surround yourself ...Sorry that you are hurting, but surround yourself with people who love you, and you will better in the long run. Take care!Marcihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11514393906061742296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-29696645633092593692008-11-14T20:15:00.000-08:002008-11-14T20:15:00.000-08:00Rip it off girl! I've held on and on til the brea...Rip it off girl! I've held on and on til the break of dawn! I always say "hurt now or hurt later." You don't want to be getting over someone in 5 or ten years because you just held on. Rooting for you!adventure grrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09154153555230218062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-92030285345872698042008-11-14T18:43:00.000-08:002008-11-14T18:43:00.000-08:00I forgot to tell you that I signed up for the surf...I forgot to tell you that I signed up for the surf city half, so we should meet up for a drink beforehand! I know I made my blog private (because of my shitty ex) but my email address is dlspinola at yahoo. E-mail me if you want to hook up! :)Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05148048808697161710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-77136279124775149472008-11-14T18:04:00.000-08:002008-11-14T18:04:00.000-08:00Sometimes sitting with what just IS is the most di...Sometimes sitting with what just IS is the most difficult and painful part. Hang in there.Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15918325255475723268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-88082101358407202582008-11-14T11:54:00.000-08:002008-11-14T11:54:00.000-08:00Hey Girl, Thinking of you for sure :) Hope you soo...Hey Girl, Thinking of you for sure :) Hope you soon are feeling better. If you ever need anything, let me know, because seriously, I know the pain too.Chic Runnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11670504238110246108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-59569208444190798302008-11-14T11:35:00.000-08:002008-11-14T11:35:00.000-08:00For all the things that you feel you are or are no...For all the things that you feel you are or are not; you are still one heck of a runner!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12276689467044072470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-30359030549359784612008-11-14T10:55:00.000-08:002008-11-14T10:55:00.000-08:00big *hugs* from the carolinas. The emotional pain...big *hugs* from the carolinas. The emotional pains end up making us stronger people. You will emerge on the other side a stronger more confident woman with a clearer picture of what you want. "Deal or no deal" for men is a rough game, but when you open your briefcase at the end you will find that true love was in there all along. Just eliminate all of the other briefcases and you will find it.<BR/><BR/>I should mention that i hate deal or no deal. it's one of the worst concepts for a tv show anyone has ever thought of. ever.Carolina Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834384961037080805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-4556641492393469312008-11-14T09:44:00.000-08:002008-11-14T09:44:00.000-08:00POM, I'm sorry, but remember, all things happen fo...POM, I'm sorry, but remember, all things happen for a reason, even when you may not know it. This will be better for both of you in the long run. You will be stronger because of this. Just run and get it out of your system. <BR/><BR/>**HUGS**Leeniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03669831201059037034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-47617580909755991952008-11-14T08:42:00.000-08:002008-11-14T08:42:00.000-08:00Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this. I can relate. I k...Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this. I can relate. I know it's cliche, but time heals all wounds. Six months ago, I was in the darkest place I've ever been. I'm happy to tell you that today is a different story! I know you've heard it before, but I'm convinced that everything happens for a reason. You may not see it now, but some day, it will all make sense! God Bless that Broken Road!Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05148048808697161710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-18622070341630772262008-11-14T08:29:00.000-08:002008-11-14T08:29:00.000-08:00Big hugs- you are strong.Big hugs- you are strong.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285850895862247408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-20935418373116752172008-11-14T08:24:00.000-08:002008-11-14T08:24:00.000-08:00Don't know what to say except I'm sorry too :( I'm...Don't know what to say except I'm sorry too :( I'm the same way with always trying to stay friends because don't want to let go, but it definitely makes it much harder for me.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17100746061554733157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-44486031356136185012008-11-14T06:43:00.000-08:002008-11-14T06:43:00.000-08:00You will pull through this and be even better on t...You will pull through this and be even better on the other side! I'll be thinking of you today...healthy ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07314694552580228900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-29524917181509108632008-11-14T06:20:00.000-08:002008-11-14T06:20:00.000-08:00Oh, POM....need a vacation? Come to Canada and fre...Oh, POM....need a vacation? Come to Canada and freeze your ass off - that'll help you forget your troubles!!<BR/>Sorry to hear you are sad - sending you warm thoughts and hugs.<BR/>...NO, wait, give the warm thoughts back....it's cold here!! :)the Bag Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17434610508260994331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-71503260145230612242008-11-14T06:16:00.000-08:002008-11-14T06:16:00.000-08:00POM,So sorry that you are hurting. I'm sure you w...POM,<BR/>So sorry that you are hurting. I'm sure you will find a way to deal with it and emerge stronger on the other side. After years and years of resisting, I finally started therapy in earnest and I have to say it is doing me worlds of good. I'm really learning so much about myself and it's helping me to deal with some of the stressors in my life. If you have the means and are open to it, you might want to shop around to find a good therapist. You don't have to deal with this all by yourself. Big hugs to you!Lucashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13128442364616488882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-42041916188222950702008-11-14T03:28:00.000-08:002008-11-14T03:28:00.000-08:00Oh no. You'll get through it! And you know you wil...Oh no. You'll get through it! And you know you will. I've been reading for awhile, and you're such a strong girl. Do what you need to do to heal. Cry. Run. Have a glass of wine and eat some chocolate with you're girls. Surround yourself with positive people. I find that sometimes when I get into these little ruts (And notice them because I'm terrified of ending up like the people I love) after awhile you just don't want to be like that, and then you pull yourself out of the rut however you have to. And then once you do, "Turn your wounds into Wisdom"- as Oprah says. <BR/><BR/>Hope things get better for you. Chin up. You're gonna be okay.<BR/><BR/>((HUGS))AddictedToEndorphinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08289165436547387984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-39520135407020676282008-11-14T03:23:00.000-08:002008-11-14T03:23:00.000-08:00Im a bandaid ripper as well.and it SUCKS, Girlfrie...Im a bandaid ripper as well.<BR/><BR/>and it SUCKS, Girlfriend.<BR/><BR/>and then it heals.<BR/><BR/>hugs,<BR/><BR/>Carlacarlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10189971808958997845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-49627374901201102382008-11-13T23:05:00.000-08:002008-11-13T23:05:00.000-08:00sorry, you have to go through the pain... it sucks...sorry, you have to go through the pain... it sucks no matter how necessary...<BR/><BR/>and cut yourself slack if you do succumb to wine, weight and rebound dating habits... you are human... though I find excessive running a perfect panacea for emotional pain myself...<BR/><BR/>And you know, the whole one door closes another opens thing isn't so cheesy once a bunch of time passes...Romancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09902489253812580658noreply@blogger.com