tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post7885170160713680706..comments2023-10-29T04:29:29.607-07:00Comments on Pieces of Me: Say It Out LoudP.O.M.http://www.blogger.com/profile/16410533843419723414noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-71483715254700820332009-04-01T10:11:00.000-07:002009-04-01T10:11:00.000-07:00LOL! I just heart ya! I had a Dr.s appt this am an...LOL! I just heart ya! I had a Dr.s appt this am and I did not want to start a book or anything that required thinking. I printed out you last 7 posts and it was awesome! I was laughing so hare at the M3 story.Vivhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01275505112098052230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-66481978508090256392009-03-25T08:37:00.000-07:002009-03-25T08:37:00.000-07:00Wow. Coulda used this about 10 years ago. You ar...Wow. Coulda used this about 10 years ago. You are so wise. :DNancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14684236668997938263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-15288557570196166722009-03-18T08:38:00.000-07:002009-03-18T08:38:00.000-07:00in my infinite experience... people who say they n...in my infinite experience... people who say they never want to get married again... ALWAYS get married again.Mrs Furioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18082932653215907248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-51990867928465918942009-03-18T08:21:00.000-07:002009-03-18T08:21:00.000-07:00My 'Say it out LOUD':1. He's a drummer2. He's an a...My 'Say it out LOUD':<BR/>1. He's a drummer<BR/>2. He's an atheist<BR/>3. He's 10 years older than me<BR/><BR/>As for your Say it out Loud -- the God thing would be a hard thing for me to get over. In fact, it's something I'm dealing with right now too. Well, maybe not to the extent you are...<BR/><BR/>I say find out how strongly he feels about the last two (nothing he can do about the first one! Lol) and if he's firm in his stance it's time to scream out loud: NEXT!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16540050985010787833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-63843904038164795952009-03-17T20:34:00.000-07:002009-03-17T20:34:00.000-07:00Sheesh. If you want to get married and he doesn't,...Sheesh. If you want to get married and he doesn't, the other two really aren't important, are they? I mean, who wants to start ANYTHING trying to change the other person in some way? Unless you know you don't want to marry him and you don't care if you *could* be on the marriage track with someone you're dating and you want to just have a good experience... But it's all up to you and what YOU want.Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15918325255475723268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-78574024177098679612009-03-17T09:23:00.000-07:002009-03-17T09:23:00.000-07:00I'd give it a shot. Worse case scenario: you get ...I'd give it a shot. Worse case scenario: you get a free meal and a good story to blog about.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09996048454603381291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-63468783112425368072009-03-17T09:15:00.000-07:002009-03-17T09:15:00.000-07:00well you never know... sometimes the ones you leas...well you never know... sometimes the ones you least expect to work are the ones that do??<BR/><BR/>I am like that too... things go through my brain and I just have to talk them out to someone... I already usually know the answer but I just have to talk it out first.<BR/><BR/>good luck deciding :)Aronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17418163097675963683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-47433836386198032042009-03-17T05:43:00.000-07:002009-03-17T05:43:00.000-07:00MY OUT LOUD goes like this:I WANT TO RUN!!! NOW!!...MY OUT LOUD goes like this:<BR/><BR/>I WANT TO RUN!!! NOW!!!<BR/><BR/>But i can't. Not until my toe heals!!<BR/><BR/>Perhaps give him a chance!!! People change. Well not the height but i'm just sayin!!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13012277904032798697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-50800798448416100992009-03-17T03:06:00.000-07:002009-03-17T03:06:00.000-07:00You know what's important to you and the "deal-bre...You know what's important to you and the "deal-breakers" for a relationship so I'm sure when the time is right, you'd make the best decision for you on a relationship with this guy. Since it's the beginning of the road, it never hurts to go out and feel him out to see what he's all about. Things may change or maybe he will just become a good friend.Crissy Raehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15960584706958582064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-74412754847257864512009-03-16T20:10:00.000-07:002009-03-16T20:10:00.000-07:00All three are deal breakers to me. Don't waste you...All three are deal breakers to me. Don't waste your time, girl. Keep it moving.Christiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04588595816491102595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-90401149149222786972009-03-16T18:07:00.000-07:002009-03-16T18:07:00.000-07:00His name isn't Matt, is it?His name isn't Matt, is it?Laurelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08623841732966475396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-34793458284581938872009-03-16T16:04:00.000-07:002009-03-16T16:04:00.000-07:00Totally true...the say it out loud thing.I must pu...Totally true...the say it out loud thing.<BR/><BR/>I must put down the ice cream at night AND if I do eat it, be honest and write it in my journal. Only person it's hurting is myself! =)Alisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04468073781328699944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-35300032792663215602009-03-16T15:46:00.000-07:002009-03-16T15:46:00.000-07:00err height is an issue for me, fine I said it.ok s...err height is an issue for me, fine I said it.<BR/><BR/>ok seriously you deserve the world and this guy doesn't sound like the world, he sounds like a nice guy, end of sentence.RunToTheFinishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13995696358152941044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-59475883688389240792009-03-16T12:40:00.000-07:002009-03-16T12:40:00.000-07:001 - no big deal (pun intended) :)2 - no big deal -...1 - no big deal (pun intended) :)<BR/>2 - no big deal - unless you're specificaly looking<BR/>3 - big deal - if he doesn't believe in God - why even bother?The Road to LAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07279826672123146199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-54334643527368809772009-03-16T12:24:00.000-07:002009-03-16T12:24:00.000-07:00Do the opposite of you. Are you always too picky?...Do the opposite of you. Are you always too picky? Don't pick this guy. Are you not picky enough? Ditch him... <BR/><BR/>Try and break a pattern in your own life by doing something unexpected - surprise yourself!Petrarunshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08223283092182797048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-41628055168191792742009-03-16T12:14:00.000-07:002009-03-16T12:14:00.000-07:00I have this same thing happen all the time. I'll b...I have this same thing happen all the time. I'll be thinking something and then tell my friend and she'll be like wow, you're just not smart sometimes.Jess https://www.blogger.com/profile/04319493454447862771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-57836686808576380422009-03-16T12:00:00.001-07:002009-03-16T12:00:00.001-07:00Now, see, the height thing doesn't bother me as mu...Now, see, the height thing doesn't bother me as much as it used to... but the never wanting to get married thing is a HUGE turn-on for me.Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03861810180918719686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-67416409580377754492009-03-16T12:00:00.000-07:002009-03-16T12:00:00.000-07:00I agree with Charmaine... if I had let height issu...I agree with Charmaine... if I had let height issues make or break things, I'd still be a single woman. That said, you going out with him can lead to <I>at least</I> one of these three clusters of outcomes:<BR/><BR/>1) dating relationship<BR/>2) new friend<BR/>3) free mealJulie Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05695544893811029409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-65728851320290794102009-03-16T11:53:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:53:00.000-07:00I also employ this approach. If you are embarasse...I also employ this approach. If you are embarassed to tell a good friend, maybe this isn't a direction you want to go... <BR/><BR/>I also think to myself - ok, if I had a daughter or niece & she was telling me about this guy/this relationship - would I encourage her to keep seeing him?<BR/><BR/>I really don't know you, I jus tread your blog... but I say - he isn't good enough for you. Don't waste your time.Lisa from Lisa's Yarnshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05335500882510597919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-86894331207032653182009-03-16T11:49:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:49:00.000-07:00Heck, a nice dinner out might be fun. You don't h...Heck, a nice dinner out might be fun. <BR/><BR/>You don't have to see him again. You do, however, need to "get out there."<BR/><BR/>Consider it a practise run.Charmainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17949679256019432906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-5993939488216209112009-03-16T11:46:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:46:00.000-07:00The short issues is a HUGE deal breaker for me (an...The short issues is a HUGE deal breaker for me (and I'm just average height) I don't think I could get over it LOL. T<BR/><BR/>Don't let him waste your time chica!Marcyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14148093449696230770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-25607609062742142942009-03-16T11:30:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:30:00.000-07:00I always, rewind- I try to think when dating someo...I always, rewind- I try to think when dating someone, is this someone I would be proud to describe to friends and family?<BR/><BR/>Imagine yourself in conversation and someone says, "So tell me about the guy your dating..."<BR/><BR/>You want to gush all these wonderful things about him, not make excuses for him.Courthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15736828300253434852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-4991939290923467432009-03-16T11:27:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:27:00.000-07:00Maybe he can be a little experiment? Maybe you can...Maybe he can be a little experiment? Maybe you can make him want to get married again, make him believe in God..then dump him! hahaha (jk..that sounds wayyy too mean). Give him one date..Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04168151944437250006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-19157214364975823102009-03-16T11:25:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:25:00.000-07:00i just can't stop myself. i have no self control....i just can't stop myself. i have no self control. honestly, pom, what am i going to do? okay, okay...i'll say it out loud:<BR/><BR/>"should i take my hand out of this huge box of granola and stop eating?"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10987052136085788780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417535823506217209.post-71974657079203930972009-03-16T11:14:00.000-07:002009-03-16T11:14:00.000-07:00yea, the God issue is a killer for me. and if he ...yea, the God issue is a killer for me. and if he says he doesn't want to get married again, he might really mean it. i can promise you this is the only time i'm going to be married, once is enough.Carolina Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834384961037080805noreply@blogger.com